God’s Leadership Design
God instituted three leadership designs for humanity:
Government – Romans 13:1 “Let every person be subject to the governing authorities.” (…render unto Caesar)
Family – Ephesians 6:1-2 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. Honor your father and mother…”
Church – Hebrews 13:17: “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they keep watch over your souls and will give an account for their work…”
The Importance of Leadership
In Luke 6:40, we read, “When a man is fully discipled, he will be like his teacher.”
Leadership in Scripture is never about power but about service and example. The Lord Jesus Himself said in Mark 10:45, “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” Authentic biblical leadership follows this pattern of sacrificial service.
Godly leadership requires both character and competence, but in God’s economy, character always precedes competence. This is why the qualifications for elders in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 focus primarily on character rather than skills.
Let’s also reflect on Luke 6:40 for a moment – “he will be like his teacher.” The teacher is to be a pattern – see 1 Peter 1:16: “...be ye holy; for I am holy.”
This principle of “like teacher, like student” underscores the tremendous responsibility of leadership. Leaders reproduce themselves in those they lead. Truth without example is hypocrisy. This is why Paul could confidently say in 1 Corinthians 11:1, “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.”
God’s High Standards for Leaders
In the family and the church, God purposively sets the bar “high.”
Ephesians 5:23: “For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and He is the savior of the body.”
This headship is not about domination but about loving leadership that imitates Christ’s sacrificial love. Husbands are commanded to love their wives as Christ loved the church—sacrificially and selflessly.
1 Timothy 5:20 “... (elders) that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear,” and
Hebrews 13:17 “...for they will give an account for their work...” (also see James 3:1.)
Church leaders are held more accountable because of their more significant influence. As Scripture teaches, with greater privilege comes greater responsibility. The stricter judgment mentioned in James 3:1 reflects the seriousness with which God views the teaching ministry.
Leadership sounds like a sweet deal – until you realize that:
As to the family, Christ died for His Church.
As to the Church, leaders will give an account of their work both here and to God.
This accountability isn’t just the future but the present. Leaders who fall bring reproach not just on themselves but on the name of Christ and His church. This is why Scripture warns in 1 Corinthians 10:12, “Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall.”
The Consequences of Leadership Failure
There are two important lessons we should take away from the above –
God has high standards, and
God holds leaders accountable.
This accountability is not merely punitive but restorative and protective. God holds leaders accountable because He loves His people and desires to protect them from harmful influence.
So, if your family or your church or government is failing, who does God hold accountable?
Why?
Because of Luke – “he (those who follow) will be like his teacher.” We are to aspire to the example of our leaders.
This principle explains why God’s judgment often begins with the household of God (1 Peter 4:17). Leaders who fail to uphold God’s standards affect not just themselves but all those under their care.
Let’s consider a church leader who has fallen. Out of love, we forgive and want to restore him. But...what is the new standard for someone who has fallen and is restored? It is now lower, regardless of our desire and good intentions to try to make things right—the standard has been lowered.
Scripture makes a crucial distinction between forgiveness and restoration to leadership. While forgiveness should be immediate and complete for repentant leaders, restoration to leadership is a separate matter that requires a demonstration of renewed qualification. The fall of a leader creates a tear in the fabric of trust that takes time to repair.
Grace for Leaders Under Pressure
Indeed, leaders are not perfect. Also, Satan attacks leaders more vigorously. If they fall, a lot more crumbles under them. But God does say, “My grace is sufficient,” and “where sin abounds, grace abounds even more.”
Leaders must depend on God’s grace rather than their own strength. God sometimes allows weaknesses to keep leaders humble and dependent on Him, as seen in Paul’s thorn in the flesh (2 Corinthians 12:7-10).
Spiritual leadership is always warfare. Satan understands the principle of “Strike the shepherd, and the sheep will scatter” (Zechariah 13:7). This is why leaders must be vigilant about their spiritual armor (Ephesians 6:10-18) and accountable to other godly men.
Summary
God has sanctioned three institutions – the government, the family, and the church.
To each, He has positioned leaders:
The government’s leaders are by God’s sovereignty.
Family leaders are by default, and
Church leaders are by prescription – Elders and Deacons
Those males, who so desire and meet the qualifications of blamelessness.
These distinctions are not arbitrary but reflect God’s wisdom in creating different spheres of authority with different purposes. Government restrains evil (Romans 13:3-4), family nurtures and trains (Ephesians 6:4), and the church makes disciples (Matthew 28:19-20).
The government, the family, and the church desperately need quality leaders who influence by example.
The decline in these institutions can be traced directly to a decline in godly leadership. As go the leaders, so go the people.
Are you qualified? If you’re sure you’re qualified, you’re probably not.
Scripture emphasizes humility as a prerequisite for leadership. 1 Peter 5:5 teaches, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” True leaders recognize their inadequacy apart from God’s grace.
Finally, although church leadership characteristics apply to elder and deacon qualifications, these qualifications don’t just apply to leaders—all believers should aspire to these virtues.
The qualifications for leadership in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 are not extraordinary characteristics, but the everyday Christian life lived consistently and maturely. What is required of leaders should be the goal of every believer.
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